Let's talk about this often insomniac "soul four questions" the size of the penis, hardness, length of time, and your legendary technique, the girls in the end care which one?
Let us reveal them one by one to see if the answer is what you think.
Penis size: how important is it?
Boys often suffer from "size anxiety" and feel inadequate because they've been misled by those "imaginary enemies" -Adult films have misled you! The "big sizes" on screen are truly breathtaking, but real women don't care so much. According to a survey of 52,031 heterosexuals, some 66 per cent of men were dissatisfied with the length of their penises, while 85 per cent of women were satisfied with the length of their partners. In other words, length may be important to you, but it may not be to her, and girls are more concerned with the overall sexual experience than just length.
Now let’s talk about hardness, a key factor in a sexual experience. A lack of hardness can significantly reduce a girl's pleasure and sexual satisfaction. Here we can use 'hardness levels' to make it easy to categorize:
Levels 1 and 2: too soft to penetrate.
Level 3: can enter but not hard enough, the experience is average.
Level 4: perfect hardness, both hard and firm, girls' favorite.
So instead of obsessing about size, focus on hardness. After all, hardness is the "weapon" you can control.
Let’s move on to time, how long sex actually lasts and how important it is.
The length of time is a clichéd topic, especially for girls. Due to physiological differences between men and women, girls need more time to "warm up" during sex. But that doesn't mean longer is better. According to studies 7-13 minutes of intense lovemaking (excluding foreplay and after play) is the ideal time for girls.
Less than 7 minutes: feels like a fast-forwarded film and is unfulfilling.
7-13 minutes: just right, satisfying and not tiring.
More than 13 minutes: starts to feel tired, even a little "aesthetic fatigue".
Therefore, male compatriots, remember the "golden period", do not treat yourself like a marathon runner, the appropriate "sprint" is the most important.
And let’s not forget about technique.
Skill is an important factor in making sex more enjoyable. Good sex is not just 'in and out', but involves foreplay, communication, dealing with sensitive points and other aspects. A study shows that professional training in sexual skills can significantly improve not only the partner's experience of pleasure, but also the relationship and satisfaction. The gentle touch of foreplay, timely verbal communication and precise stimulation of sensitive points are all details that can make girls more engaged and enjoy the whole process. In addition to physical interaction, psychological communication is equally important. Often girls are more interested in emotional communication and psychological fit.
Sex is not just about physical contact, it is also about mind-melding. Being able to communicate with your partner and understand each other's needs and feelings is more important than just physical performance.
To summarize, Men, instead of obsessing about your size, pay more attention to hardness, time, skill and communication.
The ultimate goal of sex is to make each other enjoyable, fulfil each other's needs and increase the happiness of both parties. As long as the heart to operate, you are the most perfect partner in her heart! And like always, let’s vibe has all your bedroom needs to make it enjoyable for everyone.
Keep vibing,
Shay Lassen